Babysitter or Mother ????

I'm having such a hard time being a MOM !!!! I feel more like a Babysitter  than a Mother lately !!!! Caden is really testing my patience !!!! I try to teach him fun and exciting things and do projects with him,  and he just doesn't want to listen to me. Then going to Church yesterday was really hard. Caden was throwing a Tantrum like a Two year old the whole time at church. He has a hard time going to Primary, he is the child that you can hear screaming at the top of their lungs in the hallway !!!! It's really hard for me to be in the Primary Presidency also because I have to be in there at the same time he is and he just wants my attention the whole time. I feel so bad for my Dear Friend Krista who is Caden's Teacher. Every Sunday she has to hold him in her lap until he calms down.

Then at Home we struggle at Dinner time and Bed time every Day. I told Lee I just want to give up on him. He has no respect for the both of us. Caden loves to feed off our anger and frustration when he gets into trouble. I try to stay calm and collected during these frustrating times, but I find my loosing control.

I need to find some help !!!!! I need some ideas !!!!

If you know of anything that works, Let me know and I will try anything !!!!

I'm also trying to find Parenting Classes to take. If you know of any good Classes let me know also too !!!!

PS: Don't get me wrong Children always go thru these stages, it just feels like Caden's has been forever.